Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Differences...

So a friend of mine asked for my opinion on culture differences between America and Australia. Oddly the biggest difference I have noticed may not even qualify as a culture difference, regardless here was the answer I gave...

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As for Australia... Culture here is sometimes very odd but they are much more like Americans than they would admit, and you will probably laugh but this is the biggest thing I noticed since coming here:

In America if you are shopping and you are walking in a mall or a store, you typically find that people stay to the right and make room to pass, or at least say excuse me when you are blocking their way, or they are blocking yours... Here there is no such automatic courtesy -- Americans walk like they drive, Australians walk wherever they damn well please and if they bump you in the process they seldom even say sorry or excuse me, it is weird. It's like it is your fault if you weren't getting out of the way fast enough for someone that is moving faster.

The funniest thing about this phenomenon is that all the grocery carts have wheels that allow the cart to move in any direction -- sideways, slant ways, etc. It's like they made the cart (which by the way they call a trolley) to fit the way people walk all over the place.

Logically I keep thinking, you drive to the left, you should walk to the left... but if you tried to walk to the left people would still run into you because they just don't think "Oh I should make sure to walk to the left, because I will avoid running into this other person who is walking at me" It's like that thought process does not exist.
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Now don't get me wrong, Australians are generally very polite people...

I think, however, when they are shopping it is a matter of focus and they tend to be more focused on what they want than who they are walking through to get it. There is nothing wrong with that, it is just not logical to me because I tend to move out of people's way and sadly I can't anticipate here which way someone will choose to walk around me the way I can guess in the states. Sure you still get bumped by people in the states, but usually they feel remorse, here they look at you like "why didn't you know where I was heading?" as if the bee line they were making should be the line I avoid. I am not a mind reader...

2 comments:

  1. You're pregnant, you have the best excuse to just run them over or to knock them out if they bump your belly too hard, lol. Hope things are well, I've been missing you a lot lately :)

    Oh btw, I'm back to my maiden name - Tiffanie Hedges :) Yay for divorce!

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  2. *hugs* I miss you too, I want to go play lazer tag, but I am too exhausted lately... So come visit... I only have about 6 weeks to go if she is delivered on her due date.

    Curiously... what made you finally change your name back to Hedges?

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